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Top 3 Sites to Meet a Kinky Partner


Trying to meet and fuck someone kinky – especially when you’ve first discovered that you’re a kinkster – can be be a bit challenging.

Due to app store restrictions it’s hard to find a mobile app that’s explicitly for kinky people and a lot of fetish dating sites are super scammy!

So here are 3 sites to try to find a kinky partner that aren’t scammy and are easy to use!

Fetlife

When it comes to the kink community, Fetlife has essentially become the epicenter. Most people who’ve found kink have eventually found Fetlife whether that be through a partner or off a suggestion of someone in a fetish four.

Fetlife lives up to it’s name of being Facebook for kinky people. Think about it: you probably still have your Facebook account active even if you don’t use it particularly often. Why? Because it’s the only way you can connect with certain relatives and old friends from school. Plus almost every establishment, club, or bar uses Facebook events.

Fetlife is usually the only way you can contact kinky friends and acquaintances – especially if they’re private with their identity, which a lot of people are. Plus, Fetlife is one of the best and only ways to stay up to date on the events your local dungeon is hosting. Most dungeons and play spaces don’t have accounts on other sites because of the content they’re discussing!

On Fetlife you’ll find groups for certain Fetishes, groups of people within kink, or personal ads. You’ll also find a lot of location based groups that support a community of people within a certain age group (like next generation, or under thirties) and groups for vanilla topics!

Fetlife is pretty much a one-stop-shop for porn, socialization, hooking up, and finding your next kink event you want to attend.

If you a remotely serious about kink or exploring your freakier side, then I think you really need to sign up for Fetlife. Unlike a lot of niche dating apps and sites you’re not going to be charged unless you want premium content. Fetlife is totally usable on a free membership.

Connect with your local – and global – kink community with this stellar social media/porn/dating site hybrid.

Whiplr

For those of us on the move, Whiplr might be a better option. You’ll find a lot of people on this app who are looking for hookups.

If you’re looking to get together someone quickly then Whiplr might be more efficient. Because it’s location based and lists people in a grid by how close they are to you and by who’s online, you’ll be able to find someone near you in a pinch.

Unlike Fetlife which doesn’t have a mobile app, Whiplr is much better suited for mobile use. However, it will drain your battery and doesn’t have as wide as a user base.

xPost

When it comes to finding kinky people on mobile dating apps, xPost is definitely a little more easy to use and well designed. It’s much prettier and – like Fetlife – encourages people who are all sorts of kinky to sign up.

You’re going to find people who are looking to explore or dip their toe into the lifestyle, as well as people who are very experienced. Another great feature that this app has is that it allows you to sign up as a couple! So you and your partner can look for nudes and hookups around you

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